Today I am celebrating as I have finally finished my first self help book on trauma healing. It is designed to show you the way in easy steps. Encouraging you to be able to heal safely and surely. We all have the capacity to heal, each one of us.
In the process of writing the book, I have also discovered a lot about myself. The biggest hurdle that we can have in life is just feeling safe enough to show up. This has certainly been the case for me.
I was almost 50 when I started building my business around healing trauma. I had raised my family and been through many traumatic experiences myself. You could say that I have learnt about trauma healing from the inside out.
I am not a man. I am not from a highly academic research background but now I am ready to stand up and be seen. I came from a highly impoverished background and had to fight to get an education at 15 when my father wanted me to work in a factory. I ran away from home ( it was barely a home but just a place where I shared a room with my cousins in my cousins house) and then carved out my own life. It has been a long and difficult journey.
But now with completing my book, I think I have got to the place where I can say that I am proud to be me. I am ready to feel confident about the knowledge that I have around trauma healing. I have worked with hundreds of clients and already taught many practitioners, trauma healing skills.
As I step into the next phase of my life, I am committed to sowing the seeds of planetary trauma healing.
Did your Mother tell you about your birth? Chances are that she didn’t and that she thought it was alright…..SHE MAY HAVE BEEN WRONG
When I asked my Mother, she had no answers…. I did my own ‘personal research’ and found out from MY body memories that the terrible pain that I had in my pelvis and the tension in my shoulder and jaw were the result of my Challenging FACE UP Birth.
I also discovered that my inability to feel safe in relationship was linked to my ‘Discovery Moment’ when my mother was unsure as a young women about being pregnant.
My deep anxiety around connection and having a home was linked to my Implantation.
And the immense amount of shock in my body was due to my Embodiment Experiences. (The time when we transition into a physical form. It is thought to be at some point along the way of the Egg Journey or Sperm Journey, when these two reproductive cells are moving towards each other)
There was much to heal but I knew where to start. Each time that I researched within the context of a loving, supportive group, together with my teacher Karlton Terry, who is a Pre Birth Educator, I was able to heal another piece of the puzzle.
Unfortunately, when these earlier traumas are not healed, they have a way of repeating. It took me 3 marriages, before I understood the problems that I had around connection and safe relationship.
I could go on….there is much to this story….
AND YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY…
What is it that you need to heal in your life and where did it start? You don’t actually need to know anything to get started, except for what is not working in your life now. This is a great pointer to where you may have had a problem in your pre natal life.
Julia and I are here to help you. We are skilled at understanding the body language that shows itself in the people that we are working with when they start to ‘tap into’ their early cellular memories.
Why not take this opportunity to attend the next Healing Birth Wounds Workshop and we will take you carefully and safely, in a loving way, to a more healed and integrated experience of yourself?
March 12th & 13th Healing Birth Wounds Workshop.